amadeupname: (the DEAD)
Glitter is the herpes of craft supplies. ([personal profile] amadeupname) wrote2004-08-22 12:07 am

Quick question

How soon after you meet a person is it okay to ask them out? Like, say you met someone who you got along with pretty well, and had a lot in common, etc... Do you ask them out after a week or two of getting to know them? Or a couple days? I mean, if you wait too long it'll be more of a friends thing, and a lot of people don't want to touch that... Arg. I don't know. I'm going to bed.

[identity profile] niiea.livejournal.com 2004-08-23 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
I had a boy who waited SO long to ask me it just got...annoying. He never asked me out, all he would do was ask me... out. Like, to go places. And he came on too fast and too strong. Not doing things in a group first, even.
But that was in 7th grade, mind you. :P

However, with the love of my life, we said I love you after 3-4 days and by that Saturday (we met on the Friday) we were going out.

It all depends. Don't wait too long but I don't suggest making it so short either. It's up to you. Do what you feel is right.

AND- Why haven't you told me about this love interest?????

[identity profile] thesaneminority.livejournal.com 2004-08-23 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
Because it's relatively new and I haven't talked to you lately?

[identity profile] niiea.livejournal.com 2004-08-23 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
Oh.